Empowering Women To Create Extraordinary Relationships
With Deborah Hardee
Awaken your feminine magnificence, easily attract quality men and build and maintain a lasting relationship.
This masterclass will infuse every part of your life with radiance. You'll feel a magnetic confidence that effortlessly draws in quality men who appreciate and cherish you.
ready TO EXPERIENCE THESE BENEFITS?
Are you ready to activate your feminine magnificence and unlock the wisdom that can’t be learned in books?
You’re in the right place! I can’t tell you how often I talk to women who long to create a thriving relationship but lack the confidence that’s needed to manifest it.
They tell me they long to trust themselves but are caught in limiting patterns they can’t seem to break free of. What they’re missing is the ancient wisdom that was not passed down to them by the women in their lives. Does this speak to your soul?
If so, the LoveLife Mystery School is what you’ve been waiting for.
In this class, I’ll guide you to go from questioning your sense of self to feeling confident in everything you’re doing in your love life so you’ll be a magnetic match to the man of your dreams.
I’ll support you to activate your magnificence and awaken your inner Goddess, allowing you to enchant, allure and charm the men in your life.
You’ll feel as if you have a new Super Power, and indeed you will!
Be the love of your life so you can attract the love of your life!
“Deborah and the compassionate way she delivered information in the LoveLife Mystery School saved my life. No joke!”
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Is this you?
You’re afraid that your partner might find someone else more fulfilling and you wonder if you should stay or go.
You fear you’ll never truly understand men or how to communicate with them.
You feel exhausted because you give and give and have little to show for it in return.
You’re tired of the emotional roller coaster you experience while playing the field and dating.
You feel frustrated by your lack of self-confidence and think it gets in the way of creating true love.
You have the feeling that there’s more to love than what you’ve been taught but don’t know where to find the right information.
You’re terrified you’ll never experience true love because you don’t trust men (or maybe even yourself).
You harbor deep resentment towards your ex or a past lover even though you know it’s crushing your soul.
Deep down, you feel drained, numb and afraid you don’t deserve an amazing relationship.
You find it difficult to express your own needs, desires and passions in your past or present relationship.
Has Your Confidence Been Rocked To The Core?
I’ve Been There Myself… Many Times.
You know when you wake up in the morning and, as you lie in bed, you imagine what a great, long lasting relationship with deep intimacy would feel like? I experienced that longing many times before I got married.
I dated all kinds of dysfunctional men who broke my heart. But what I didn’t realize…until much later…was that I was unconsciously repelling the “Good Guys” and attracting the “Bad Boys”!
I know what heartbreak and loneliness feels like because I was that woman until I finally learned the top secrets for creating an extraordinary relationship. That’s when I met my husband, when I was 40 years old.
Since then, I’ve helped 100’s of heart-centered women create the relationship of their dreams, and I can help you do the same!
You Don’t Have To Do This Alone…
I’m here to support you every step of the way so you can finally get off the relationship roller coaster and become SUPER CONFIDENT in EVERYTHING you’re doing in your LoveLife.
I invite you to imagine what’s possible for you…
What would it be like to wake up each morning and feel deeply connected not only to your lover but also deeply in love with yourself?
To know you can express your deepest desires, dreams and passions to a man with confidence, ease and a spiciness that delights him?
To no longer struggle to activate the irresistible vibration that draws men toward you and expands your friendships with other people, as well?
This is SO possible for you!
Are you ready to start releasing limiting beliefs and embrace a softer way of being?
Here’s what students are saying…
“Neither of us have ever had a relationship like this!”
“Before I enrolled in the LoveLife Mystery School, I was single and struggled to really trust myself, let alone a man in relationship. I didn’t have much luck dating and started to close off, thinking that all men were the same.
I wanted to figure out how to love and communicate. Once I was able to take what Deborah had given me back to the man I was dating, it was magic. I noticed such a change in him; he felt so much more comfortable and confident to communicate with me.
Since then, we got engaged and we're the happiest that we've ever been. Neither of us have ever had a relationship like this before and we're just so grateful. We are getting married next year and I can't wait to be his wife!” Calie Wendlandt
“It’s a super power!”
“I didn’t realize that I was continuously giving too much to men who weren’t able to give back. I felt utterly at a loss because I knew I was sharing this precious energy but it was always an unsafe and inappropriate person to give to. In Deborah’s class I learned about overgiving, how it affects us and how easy it is to slide into that behavior as women. It actually can put us in dangerous situations for our hearts.
The LoveLife Mystery School teaches hidden, sacred knowledge. And once that knowledge is awakened, you embody and naturally engage with men in powerful ways that were previously unavailable to you. It's literally a gift to be able to embody those energies and experience the impact they have on men. Men now cherish what I bring out of them and the way I make them feel. It's a superpower!” Anya Grace
“Forever grateful for saving our relationship”
“My husband and I will be forever grateful to Deborah for saving our relationship. After integrating her wisdom into my life, my tumultuous relationship has shifted to one of peace, play, and ecstatic bliss. Deborah's work is essential if you desire a juicy, vibrant, joy-filled relationship!” Jamie Archibald
A Clear Process To Support You To:
Develop skills to express your wishes, passions and dreams powerfully so you can receive the best from men.
Release limiting beliefs and build self worth so you become a magnet for love and respect.
Easily forgive the past and envision new and exciting possibilities for love in your life.
Empower your self-confidence and own your feminine magnificence to attract the love you desire.
Activate your feminine energy and enchant quality men everywhere you go.
Gain friendships with sisters who are compassionate, loving and inspiring on this transformational journey.
Feel electric and alive knowing you’re a high vibrational match for an extraordinary lover.
Mend your tender heart, gain confidence and blossom because you know exactly how relationships work.
Unlock the Ancient Wisdom that’s been hidden and soften to a new way of being.
Find greater meaning in life, connect deeply to your feminine power and leave behind a legacy of love.
INTRODUCING
Let’s Dive In
Here’s What You’ll Receive!
Entrance into the Starlight Cantina, a soulful community of Goddesses, Gypsies and Woodland Fairies (just kidding…but kinda not kidding) who own their feminine radiance. At the Cantina, you’ll create your profile, post your questions, wins and comments. Our calendar for calls and portal for the lessons and replays are at your fingertips.
Access to all features of the LoveLife Mystery School for one year.
Over 35 lessons reveal the top strategies for magnetic attraction at a cellular level. The 5 Classes (modules) are released each week for 5 weeks.
The Playbooks (aka workbooks) are filled with exercises to guide you through a transformational journey that will ignite your feminine essence and awaken you to a loving mindset.
Live weekly Q&A sessions over the course of a year to deepen your understanding and allow you to powerfully embody each step in the process.
Guided Meditation practices lead you into a deep relationship with the sacred feminine and ignite your manifestation superpowers.
Take a deeper look at the class outline:
Class 01
LoveLife Intentions
We’ll create a road map to clearly define what you want in your ideal relationship and what it will look like when you’ve created your dream life.
Class 1 Lessons
- WELCOME TO THE STARLIGHT CANTINA! - Get Started & Join the Sisterhood
- EMBARK ON YOUR JOURNEY - Guidelines & Overview
- MAGIC & MIRACLES - Foundational Mindset for Success
- SET CLEAR INTENTIONS - The Keys to Your Success
- THE POWER OF POSITIVE FEELINGS - Emotions and The Future
- MINIMUM & MAGIC WAND - Vision for the Future & The Two of You
- SACRED RITUAL - Feel Free
Class 02
Feminine & Masculine Mysteries
Unlock the secrets to easily attract a match to your soul by stepping into your feminine magnificence.
Class 2 Lessons
- REVOLUTIONIZE LOVE - The Revolutionary Relationship Archetype
- DEFINING FEMININE & MASCULINE ENERGY - Supercharge Romance
- THE BIG PICTURE - Bring in Balance
Class 03
Build Lasting Love
Discover top secrets to build a relationship that lasts and is based on your core values.
Class 3 Lessons
- DATING SECRETS REVEALED - Strategies for Being Magnetic
- YOUR ESPIONAGE TRAINING - Good Guys vs. Bad Boys
- MAKING LOVE - Petal to the Metal or Hit the Brakes?
- THE POWER STRUGGLE - Your Relationship Matures
- BREAKUPS - Insights for Leaving Powerfully & Gracefully
- COMMUNICATION - Techniques for Lasting Love
Class 04
Capture His Heart
Capture a man’s heart like never before so you’ll inspire him to shower you with consistent, quality time.
Class 4 Lessons
- BRAIN DISTINCTIONS - Explore our Differences
- CREATE GREAT APPRECIATIONS - Top Secrets to Share with Your Lover
- THE ART OF APPRECIATION - Captivate Your Man’s Heart
- WRONG! - What are Women Doing?
- YOUR BIG GIVE - Make the World Go Around!
Class 05
Activate the Power of Joy
Ignite extraordinary, soulful pleasure & passion and unlock true love.
Class 5 Lessons
- JOY & PLEASURE - Sex Goddess, Sex!
- WHAT DO YOU LOVE? - Tools to Manifest Magic & Miracles
- LOVELIFE FORMULA - The Big Picture
- COMPLETION - Journey Recap - How Far We Have Come
- CELEBRATION - How to Honorably End With Sacred Ceremony
Your love life reimagined!
Clients Are Raving About Us!
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“Before taking the LoveLife Mystery School I didn’t understand how important it was to love and feel confident in myself before stepping into relationship with a lover. With Deborah’s help, I was able to find love and confidence in myself and exchange a very soul fulfilling love with my partner. We’ve been together for 3 years now and just celebrated our wonderful wedding!”
Hali
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“I used to be quite unconscious about who I dated, either attracting men I feared I’d be trapped by or men I might be abandoned by. These fears caused me to act in ways that failed to reflect my true nature. Through Deborah’s class I learned that my relationships with men could be powered by self love, self acceptance, creativity, beauty, and having fun! Now the attention from men flows freely towards me and I respond to them in ways that are more authentic and generous. I’m grateful to know these principles, which I never heard anywhere before! Every woman deserves to level up her relationships and I recommend this as the place to do that!”
Jean
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"I was going through a dark time and I was unsure about a relationship in my past. I wasn't seeing the opportunities and I knew I had to make changes within myself. Through the class I gained confidence and learned to love myself by putting myself first. I have a very bright future ahead of me."
Marcella
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“I spent most of my adult life not understanding why or how to access my softer, feminine side. I’m now empowered to create irresistible polarity with my partner. I've gone through Deborah’s class four times over the last 11 years as I've traversed through divorce and dating. LoveLife Mystery School has helped me be a radiant lover.”
Krista
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“This course changed how I am in relationship. Before, I would pursue a guy, make the moves and make the relationship happen. Now I let it happen and let him take the lead. I became a different person and that led me to Kirk. I did all the right things and we’ve been together for 10 years now.
Tracie
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“Because of the class, I have the tools to attract and build a strong relationship based on self love, great communication and mutual respect. I have fun expressing myself with a charm that delights my husband. We're about to celebrate our 4th wedding anniversary and we've enjoyed traveling all over the world. It keeps getting better!"
Hana
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“I came into the course still reeling from a painful breakup, not knowing how to prevent the same pattern from repeating. Thanks to Deborah’s powerful and compassionate teaching, I now have confidence that I can recognize an emotionally healthy man and build a healthy relationship from the ground up.”
Ruth
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”The information Deborah teaches just keeps giving and giving. This class would be a great value at 10x the price!”
Angie
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“I was amazed at how quickly I was able to get on track with my partner during the LoveLife Mystery School. It’s easy to feel distance when you’re not communicating well. Now I know how to speak up when my feelings get hurt and he’s able to do the same. We KNOW that we’re on the same team, which helps us navigate situations that used to lead to arguments. He treasures me and I’ve learned how to show that I treasure him in ways that really make him feel valued.”
Missy
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"Through the LoveLife Mystery School, Deborah taught me to tune into what I really desire and communicate that clearly, without over giving or allowing myself to get resentful. I’m paying attention and asking questions and if I see a red flag, then I talk about it or walk away. A healthy love feels realistic, not impossible for me."
Joy
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“I recently divorced after 30 years with the same man. During the LoveLife Mystery School I learned to become the LOVE OF MY LIFE to attract the LOVE OF MY LIFE! I’ve been doing a lot of deep diving into self development, along with lots of first dates and a couple short relationships that have helped me get clearer and clearer on what I want in my next life partner. LoveLife Mystery School gave me the confidence to get out there and experience all that life has to offer!
Juliana
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It was easy to point my finger at my husband as the main problem in our relationship. Now that I know how to empower myself and my relationship, communication with my husband has improved so much we are a different couple! I actually didn’t know that I was married to a healthy, generous man! This is the best gift you can give to yourself, because nothing is more important than loving yourself and knowing how men love to be loved.
Leslie
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"Deborah showed me how to awaken my own unique gifts as a woman. I manifested a whole new way of connecting and relating to the men in my life. Through this transformative journey I have experienced new joy and delight within myself and in all my relationships."
Shelby
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"OMG, I love love loved the LoveLife Mystery School. The paradigm shift Deborah took me through was aaaaaaaamazing, not to mention so much fun! I'm married now to a quality man and we're crazy about each other and we just gave birth to our second child!”
Courtney
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"I was newly single and I wasn't sure how to date again. I'm more in my feminine now and there's a softness in my life. I saw a big shift in my relationship with my son and my father and I know I can attract healthy men because I realize my value, I'm a catch! This class is powerful beyond measure."
Joy
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"I spent a lot of time and energy thinking about how to get my husband to pay attention to me, but It wasn’t working. In Deborah’s class I discovered that I was probably codependent in all my relationships, not just my marriage. While it was surprising, it was also, in retrospect, quite obvious. My tendency to give too much was inherent in the way I was raised. I would give to the point of exhaustion but I didn’t know any other way. Thanks to the LoveLife Mystery School, I no longer hold my husband hostage with covert, petty meanness when I don’t get the attention I’m seeking. I’ve discovered that I’m a lot happier when I’m not expecting my husband to guess what I’m thinking, and he is, too!"
Nicole
How is this different from Deborah’s workshops and retreats?
The content in this training is deeply unique from my other courses, workshops and offerings. It is a collaborative journey that we’ll take together.
The LoveLife Mystery School is a training that I have actively been developing for over 21 years. It’s the culmination of listening carefully to my students and to my spirit guides and teachers while creating a curriculum that is designed to empower you to create the relationship that’s a match to your soul.
It brings together decades of study, research and training in various spiritual and coaching arts as well as a lifetime of lived experience and deep integration.
I first received a clear vision for the structure of this training in 2003 and have been building this body of work ever since.
This is not something that can be learned by reading books. The course takes you through a proven, step-by-step process to activate an energetic shift that will unfold for you in your own unique way.
The awakening of your feminine magnificence is a transformational experience that requires hand holding and gentle persuasion. I’ll be with you every step of the way!
This really is the course I wish I’d had to support me on my journey to loving myself and mastering the art of relationship.
Imagine These Results
Love will flow as you navigate relationships with grace.
He’ll make plans to be with you again and again.
embody a confidence you’ve never known before.
Hear It Straight From Our Clients!
“I have a concrete plan on how to rebuild our love!”
“Before the LoveLife Mystery School, I didn’t speak my mind when I was hurt because I didn’t want to upset anyone or cause conflict. Most days, I was filled with anxiety and resentment. When I did work up enough courage to speak my mind, I was so jumbled and scattered that my initial issue wasn’t resolved. There were times where I shoved too many grievances away instead of addressing them when they came up and I would explode in one huge anger dump. I might have felt better after that explosion, but it never lasted and nothing was fixed. We were at extreme odds and I was questioning our future together.
After taking the LoveLife Mystery School, I have a new understanding of how to approach and talk to my husband. I feel that I have a path forward in our relationship, with a concrete plan on how to rebuild our love and make it stronger than before. I feel less overwhelmed and stressed in my day-to-day life and I have more patience for my loved ones. I cannot recommend this class enough. Deborah has a magical way of teaching and you will learn something profound every time you meet. I am sad to see the class end, but I can’t wait to take this knowledge with me, continue my work, and see where our new roles take us. “ Danielle Stanley
“I’m super happy because he just asked me to marry him!”
“I’d been in an addictive, 12-year relationship with a lot of fighting. In Deborah’s class, I realized that I didn’t know what a healthy relationship actually looked like. The AMAZING result was I began dating a guy who had all the qualities Deborah taught me to look for. For over four years now I’ve been in a healthy, fun relationship that’s the complete opposite of the relationship I ended. I’m super happy because he just asked me to marry him!” Jennifer Whitney
“My relationship blasted into the next dimension!”
“Before taking Deborah's class, I felt there was something missing in my relationship. I had anxiety about how to give to and receive from my partner. Now, anxiety is in the rearview mirror and our connection couldn’t be more solid. This class blasted my relationship into the next dimension!” Kristen Ryan
Take the next step!
Your mission should you choose to accept it is to create a loving, lasting relationship by mastering the secrets to captivating a good man’s heart so you can finally feel treasured and truly cherished.
This is for you if you want to…
Discover new, more fulfilling ways to communicate your deepest desires and passions to men.
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Create a love so deep, vulnerable and intimate that it fills you completely.
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Uncover the #1 mindset block that keeps you from having more love and passion in your love life.
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Unlock the secrets that will compel men to cherish you so you can create the relationship of your dreams.
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Release limiting beliefs, stop playing small and share every piece of your heart.
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Ignite your divine feminine energy and integrate your gifts into everyday life, while allowing yourself to receive all the treasures LOVE has to offer.
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Understand how to lead a man into honorable masculine expression by radiating feminine essence.
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Know how to be the love of your own life to create a love-filled relationship, leaving anxiety behind once and for all.
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Experience sexual intimacy and tantric connection that elevates you both into a sacred relationship.
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Expand your consciousness and remember wisdom beyond what books can offer.
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Belong to a supportive sisterhood while shifting what’s possible for your LOVELIFE.
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Feel empowered, confident and ready to attract the love you desire.
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This is not for you if…
You’d rather experience chaos and confusion and expect someone else to fulfill you in your love life.
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You’re committed to being the victim in your relationships instead of a powerful creator.
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You want a quick fix without being open to a new mindset.
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Your need to be in control is greater than your desire to transform your life.
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You’re not interested in personal growth or having a direct experience with the sacred.
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You’re not able to be respectful of differing experiences than your own.
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You deserve to awaken your Feminine Magnificence.
FAQ
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Both! This course presents information and strategies for both single women and those in a committed relationship who want to create a relationship that’s a match to their deepest soul desires.
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The class is time released over five weeks. You'll have lifetime access to the class as well as any updates. You'll also have lifetime access to the weekly coaching calls with Deborah.
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The lessons are so thorough, many students go through the class without needing any extra support.
However there is amazing community support in The Starlight Cantina. Connect with other heart-centered women that are going through the classes with you and cheer each other on.
My trained team is here to assist if you get stuck in your lessons.
You can come to Live weekly Q&A and ask me a question. I am happy to give you suggestions, what ever you want to ask, come to Q&A and I'll be there.
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The coaching calls are each Wednesday: 9am LA | 12pm NY | 5pm UK | (4am Syd on Thursday). All calls and events are on the Calendar in The Starlight Cantina complete with links.
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All calls are recorded and added to the Classroom in The Starlight Cantina. You can submit a question in advance if you're unable to be on the call.
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You have one year to watch the videos, use the workbooks and jump on the weekly, live Q&A calls.
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Upon registration, you'll receive an email with the link to join The Starlight Cantina.
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Each class consists of multiple video lessons. The playbooks, live coaching calls and community assist you to deepen the concepts you learn in the videos.
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Some people prefer to use the playbooks printed out, but this isn’t necessary. It’s a personal choice - don’t feel obliged to print the playbooks as you can gain just as much from viewing them online.
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This largely depends on the individual. There are several videos of content in each of the five classes. In addition to that, there are playbooks with assignments to do on your own. If you’re keen to keep up with the classes each week, and complete each one before the next is released, you'll probably want to carve out a few hours per week to dedicate to your studies.
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You will have access to the playbooks, class lessons, meditations and Q&A live weekly calls for one year.
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Our only recommendation is that you have something you can use to journal with. You can use your computer or a special journal for this journey. Alternatively, you can also use the playbooks as your journal throughout the training.
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You’re welcome to email us at love@deborahhardee.com and a member of our support team will respond to you. You can also post questions and receive support from The Starlight Cantina hostess and other students in the LoveLife Mystery School Community.
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Yes, The LoveLife Mystery School has a private sisterhood called The Starlight Cantina. It’s housed on a platform called Skool which you’ll have access to for one year. The Starlight Cantina is where everything happens and it's simple to use. The community brings students of the LoveLife Mystery School together to share experiences and is monitored by a Hostess. On Skool, you'll set up a profile, post in the group, see upcoming events on the calendar and watch lessons and replays.
Still have questions? Let us know by contacting love@deborahhardee.com